Originally Posted By: Mach
That is why it is so important to do that mirror work, so that you know your truth..

Find that person again....

That is why you are being pushed here....because we can all see that young girl inside of you....
Originally Posted By: scylla
I'm glad that young girl/woman is gone. She was wound much too tight, too idealistic, worried all the time, suffered several physical maladies due to self inflicted stress, was always trying to please the adults/authorities in her life, and seldom judged good enough. In short she was a mess.

Originally Posted By: Mach
Can you ?
Originally Posted By: scylla
So far Mach, with the work I have done, I've found a very damaged young girl. A girl outwardly confident, and confrontational if necessary, but inwardly always with butterflies in her belly. A girl hiding behind her intellect and knowledge base as a safety mechanism. Someone that was forced to be too responsible much too soon.


This young girl .....

Damaged, full of butterflies, hiding, judged ....

Severe physical maladies, stress, safety mechanisms ...

No wonder you’re glad she’s gone ...

... but I wonder Scylla, where did she go?


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc