I think everyone is right. You'll never know why she won't look you in the eye so guessing will only make your imagination go nuts. But think about it this way... if she was able to do all this and look you in the eye as if she couldn't care less and was 100% confident in herself and her actions... wouldn't that be more worrisome?

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11