I love Bond's ideas!!!! It can't hurt. Will peak his curiosity. Maybe not the lingerie (you don't want him thinking you're sleeping with someone else), but the roses are a great idea. Besides, lady, you deserve some roses!!!! Do it for YOU! Just never tell him you bought them.
Dixie, I'm right with you on the kids thing. My H had a vasectomy. I keep hoping things will work and he'll get it reversed but now he's saying he doesn't think he wants more. I feel the biological clock loudly. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) There's no rule that says you can't adopt or visit a sperm bank. Just like DB and M, only you can decide on giving up on being a mom.
In the meantime, get another puppy!
Post, vent, read the Bible, read DB, do what you need to do and know we're all here pulling for you! You can do it, you can do it!!! BITS!
Praying hard for you today!!!!!
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
It can't hurt. Will peak his curiosity. Maybe not the lingerie (you don't want him thinking you're sleeping with someone else), but the roses are a great idea. Besides, lady, you deserve some roses!!!! Do it for YOU! Just never tell him you bought them. 
