Lighthouse lit until WAW comes out of fog 2

[habitacker]

Thank you very much Harrier, I would count that as one for success stories, congrats, don't let up.

I would also count that as one for R talk.

As for no R talk cementing the no communication in my W's mind, I don't think so. It is me who has realized the communication issues, I don't think she knows what our problems were. She just thinks I am an evil, angry guy and that is just the way it is. She has never looked to see what was causing this, or looked for her faults in this.

This is why I want this R talk. I don't wish to put blame on her, I just think our problems need to be known by both of us. She should not be divorcing me without having the knowledge of why we are here. She shouldn't just be able to run away without knowing what happened.