That seems darn close to reverse psychology. My W is to smart for that.
I understand the validating that she wants D, but to give her the impression that I am interested in a different woman to love me and be my W? She isn't falling for that.
Maybe if it was worded differently, so she doesn't get the impression of moving on to a different woman. Maybe coach sees that as a jealousy thing, but that will not work with my W, not an ounce of jealousy with her ever.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair