I am sorry that you are going through a hard time now. Are you on the mortgage as well or just your H? My dear friend had their home go into forclosure while her ex failed to make the payments. He was giving her very little money and was spending like crazy on the OW.
Right now protect yourself by finding out your options in this case. If the people in RL are making you a bit crazy, stay away for a bit. Watch your back though for your H.
The most iportant thing right now is that you and your son are ok and have a place to live.
Big hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory