She'll reiterate all of the things she already said, "I don't want to be with you anymore, this isn't what I want, I don't love you and I cannot change that - and I don't want to try".
Agree with her. "I can't believe I have been trying to hold onto this. I hear you, I think it is best for me to be in a marriage with a woman who loves me. I understand how you can feel that way and I wont stand in your way of leaving."
What will this accomplish? Will this not lead her to believe I WANT a divorce? I just don't see how that helps. I know I'm supposed to relieve the pressure, but I don't want her to feel confident that she's "doing the right thing".
I'm going to do my best the next time she brings up the R, to just validate. No matter what she says, not try to add anything or clarify anything. We'll see what that buys me.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
