I will bookmark this post, and keep up with what's going on...I feel for you, I honestly do. When I discovered he was falling apart, I nearly fell apart....and nearly made a decision to divorce him.
But, God in His mercy; kept me where I was..and helped me through it all, again.
Don't have but a little time...I will fill you in on the short side of what happened to me; and how it ended, later on.
I realize that no two situations are the same; but something in what I experienced might help you...I don't remember all of it, because I was in Mid Life transition for part of that time.
And, Snodderly, if you're reading this, you were RIGHT; that last issue he didn't face, until it caught up with him, did indeed interrupt my husband's processing.
It just took me some time to see; as the Lord would not reveal but a little at a time; until I could understand it all.
Later.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
