wife planning long term separation

[ironMan]

when he saw me(about a month ago) that I really loved her. He went on to say in the past I either didn't reailize my love or didnt know how to show it. He said it normal for me to be mad. This is not helping me at all! This C is counting our marriage out! I am sure my wife is too.

I stopped going to our MC. I insisted we go to one starting in September. But, like you described she seemed to think her job was to gracefully guide us to divorce. And, it was where my W felt comfortable dropping bombs on me. I thought, why should I give her an easier way to do that? That's like going to an oncologist (cancer doc) who tells you that cancer is hard but he can make your death go easier. So, screw the MC. I'm not going unless begged. And if we ever get to piecing, I'll be finding a different one.