Think about this: What does it look like when she does actually come back.
Or want to... What do YOU need to see in a new realtionship? Or is the old one good enough for you?
The old one is what you will get if you accept words as a basis for reconciliation.
If you accept emotional wimsy or glimpses of clarity.
Grit buddy ... this is so well put. Actions not words ...
As LBSs we so often look for small signs and we let it distract us from our path, our journey. Make no mistake, if the WAS/MLCer makes the decision, the choice, to work on the marriage, if they decide they truly want back ... there will be no wondering, no second guessing.
So ... keep on truckin' ....
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
