OK.. got my books and read through the LRT. One question for anyone, she is still talking to me using terms of endearment, hun,babe, etc... and I have been responding the same, should I continue to do this and follow her lead? or try to be a little more distant, I don't really want to add to any of the coldness. Any suggestions?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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