This morning I am very grateful and glad to have the 37 rules that Denver posted.
Had I known them before, I would have certainly been following them. Even last night, I would not have texted her showing all kinds of praise and desire. I would have been more cool.
However, part of the challenge is that she feels I don't truly desire her (or maybe she is just feeling less desirable herself), and she has also expressed that I have been so distant, aloof, unavailable, gone...
I will now start following the rules and always "be there" for my wife - even though there is thousands of miles between us - without initiating, pleading, over-killing, selling, forcing or any of the other ineffective things I have often done in the past.
Last night I slipped a little, today I am being and doing better.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
