I hear what you are saying. I feel it also, at some point we have to talk R. Hell if we agree with them why would they change their mind. Then I think everytime I bring it up it goes south. There for awhile we would talk R all the time, that is before she filed and she was hurt and angry and was letting her feelings out now she seems content and happy. The point is if they don't want to talk R then you are setting yourself up for failure.
