So sorry you find yourself back here. I'm going through my H's return trip to MLC'ville myself, after 8 years. God never said life would be fair, but you'd think one trip through this hell would be enough for a free pass to heaven's gate, at least!
Glad you know what steps and how to deal, so perhaps spare yourself some grief and agony. I went through the first trip alone, and only found this site at the beginning of the 2nd trip, so I'm still a beginner.
Stay strong.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011