I love your quote of a 'truth dart' It's exactly dead on. That's why my H has spent such time worrying and fretting.
As for the cost of representation, you always have the "He filed first, causing me this cost" to fall back on. I'm using it. LOL
When the shock of the service is over, you can start to look at things in a slightly different light. I believe you will. You are a smart cookie.
((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
