Let me start by saying the other thread is not letting me post anymore. Maybe 11 pages is all that is allowed? Not sure.

Now you advice, I will do this tonight. I understand what you say and truly appreciate your blunt words of advice.

Thank you very much.

This will be my goal this evening.

fingers crossed.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out