Lighthouse lit until WAW comes out of fog 2

[ScaredinCanada]

Somebody please give me a darn good reason why she does not need to understand what our problems are.

Tell me why I did the right thing by not walking in that bedroom tonight.

I battle with this more than anything everyday.

To be honest I feel like you need to have some sort of R talk at some point, because otherwise I believe she thinks that your on the same page with her. I get that feeling with my W, and only remainder detach for amost 2 weeks at a time.

Last night she initiated some R talk in bringing up that she had C this coming Thursday. She mentioned that she kind of liked going because it was someone that would ACTUALLY just listen to her and not judge her.

I replied, "Of course, she has no stake in the sitch - she could care less what happens with you marriage".

I said to her, "I'm glad that you feel good about going to C, and that it's helping you"

She replies, "Oh it's not helping anything, I don't believe I need any help - I know what I want."

I said, "Ok, so that means that you want to give us a chance." She said, "No, I'm done trying, I know what I want and I know that I don't want to try anymore".

Awesome stuff. Regardless early next week, I'm going to look into booking the MC.

We did have a funny moment. She was on the couch reading to my 2 oldest D's, when I decided to come up D5 and tickle her. She was laughing, and I proceeded to tickle D6, and then just for fun tickled my W. It was just for a second, and similar to when I smacked her on the butt last week, I got mixed sly smile from her and a "Don't do that." in a playful way.

I'm sure the fact that I am touching her messes with her. I can see that it gives her mixed feelings, but again it could be simply because she's also gone so long with out any sort of intimacy.

Along the road we go...

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