I agree, stick to the boundary. And since he is the one breaking the rules and possibly will need to go to court, he can pay the legal bill. Present that to the judge, if you need to go. It's so sad that you can't have a good post divorce R as parents and even just as civil human beings. Clearly, he doesn't much care for his children all that much ... if he did, he would be treating their mother with a lot more kindness.

Take care.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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