Dear Yellowrose, you won't recognise this name, because I posted for a long time under another, and then left the boards, but I remember you so well, and how kind and generous you were to everyone, including me. [Remember Baseball Annie, and Lisette, as well as BND and RCR?] I was so very happy when you and your h reconciled. We are on almost the same timeline, but my h has never emerged, and my divorce has just been finalised a few weeks back [over 5 years post bomb, It took a while!!]
Anyway, I am desperately sad to see you here, but I fully agree with Hearts Blessing about unfinished business. Your h had a rather short MLC compared with most here, although it didn't seem like it I am sure. You probably know that Holly06 [class of 05/06!] is just now reconciling [for about the past year] and therefore it is possible that your h didn't fully deal with everything.
You are prepared this time, and so is he. He knows he has a problem [duh] which has to be an improvement on last time. Heart's blessing, as you know, has been through this 'second' Life crisis, and survived, and my marriage hasn't been restored, and I am also OK, so it is back with the man upstairs, as Snodderly would say.
Blessings to you - we none of us deserve this stuff.