Mila, I don't know the details of your company set up, but as to your husband wanting you out - I assume that legally you are equal partners - so why can't you get him out? If he has expertise it is pretty useless as long as he is in MLC. I suspect he has nothing you couldn't buy in, and better the way he is now!
Don't forget I have been dealing with a crazy MLCer for more than 5 years! They are very very manipulative [like children] Get in a mediator if he will not talk to you. Check what happens in companies where the partners disagree and do what they do if they are smart, which is get professional advice. This is business Mila, not personal, whatever he likes to pretend. Yes he will try and make it personal because the boundaries in his mind are utterly confused.
I think you can tell your h that you can do this nicely, or you can play hardball, and then put it in the hands of lawyers, if he isn't prepared to co-operate. It is very very hard to have to be so tough with the person you shared your life with, but the alternative is to allow him to ruin the business and dissipate your hard won assets on another woman.
He feels entitled to do this. He isn't entitled, and if he won't listen to you he will have to listen to a lawyer. It is early days in the MLC and he isn't likely to change anytime soon. I am sorry to be tough, but you are dealing with someone who will trash anyone and anything that stands in his way, and not feel bad about it. At least not bad enough to stop. Some MLCers are relatively nice, but I suspect you have a fairly mean one [like mine] I often wonder if the mean ones aren't the ones that feel the most guilty underneath it all! In punishing us they are projecting the punishment they feel they shold be getting - there is a huge amount of projection in MLC.
