WAW tearing up our family

[ironMan]

Thanks everybody. I feel much better getting 2nd, 3rd, and 4th opinions here. It is INVALUABLE to me. I just got back from the basketball game with friends and I feel great. I have talked to a few friends today and feel supported. I also have plans to go up for a ski weekend with buddies in 2 weeks. I'm really enjoying life right now despite the situation with the M.

And yes, I do want the M back. But I only want it if she wants to work for it. I have no interest in having her stay because I make good money etc. I just seem to really not feel responsible for her actions. I don't like her right now, but I do love her.

I know she was full of it Denver, no way she could have me thrown out. And no, I have never hit anybody or any animal (as an adult). I haven't even yelled at her in years.