I have been following your story and your last few posts really made me cry. I jus want you to know how sorry I am and understand how bittersweet this whole ugly dynamic is.
Lorie mentioned that people do get back together even after D; she mentioned the 5 year mark. I have heard that timeline alot. Having said that, like you mentioned, it could only work again if you BOTH were different people. At least you have to take comfort in knowing that all your hard efforts have paid off becaue of the great strides you have made within yourself and for yourself.
Change is certainly not easy and it shouldn't matter the circumstances which bring us to change. The point is YOU did it and that is an amazing accomplishment.
Peace and happiness to you - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
