As per your advice I have re-read the chapter. (many times actaully lol) and I do fit the criteria that she is said in no uncertain terms that she wants to get a divorce. Well strangely enough she has never actually said the word divorce, but she has said that she wants to end it and doesn't want to work on it.
The rest of the criteria I don't know about, due to her being deployed. Our communication is limited by distance and terrible communication capabilities. Physical contact, yea don't really have to explain that one. But she has not filed, I don't know if this is because she is gone or she is still uncertain. There are so many unknowns while she isn't actually here.
Because of her being deployed I am hesitant to implement the LRT. She currently has no opportunity to see changes take place in me, which from what I understand is a large part of the LRT. Care packages are also far more important than most people think. Having been deployed multiple times that care packages are a HUGE boost, no matter who they are from. LRT would mean no more care packages (no gifts). I am scared that at this time that would do more harm than good.
What do y'all think? Is fear clouding my judgment, or do I have a valid point?
