Bolt,
You are my new inspiration. Seriously, it sounds like you are on the right track. You did the right things, my man. You gave her the space she wanted, she found out that the grass is not greener and now she is ready to work on your M. Sounds great! The best part is that the two of you will come into your M as somewhat "new" people. New Bolt with his new outlook and new W with her new outlook. But, stay focused. Start reading the part of DR that talks about coming back together and stopping the backslides.

Man, I got a lump in my throat reading your posts. You are close enough to the goal line to actually see it ahead. I am so happy for you and I can only hope to be where you are some day. Don't leave us yet though. Stay with us after things are good again and let us know what works to keep things on track. Please keep the positive vibes coming. It is nice to hear of folks turning a corner even though I still have a way to go.

So far, it looks like: BITS = 1 WAS's = 0

B.I.T.S.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...