I WILL Attain my Goals - Personal and M

[Denver_2010]

Thanks FOBD. I know I should analyze my W's words or actions. Hell, I've probably told you half a dozen times that we are NOT mind readers. Yet here I am trying to read my W's mind. It's so much easier seeing the big picture with others' sitch's than it is my own.

Yes, I too am tired of this chess game. It is emotionally exhausting. And most of the time, I feel that I am the only one bw my W and I who is actually playing. Most of the time it seems that she is just doing her thing and sitting back waiting for me to tire and end it.

One thing FOBD - I'm sure that your C is very good. But he obviously views his job as to look out for your best interest... not the best interest of your M. Be the Lighthouse FOBD... keep the road home for your W paved and smooth...

BITS!
Denver