Sorry WS, almost missed your post. Drinking deep from the STFU koolaid.
Though if I didn't like the pain (or feel it was worth it) I definitely wouldn't be here now. I've made it this far and can't say I've tried everything. But nothing's worked yet. As Jack said above, there's no use in keeping at things not working. The question is whether I'm ready for the last resort.

I understand she's irrational and emotional right now. Logic will not win the day. So how should I expect any reasonable approach to work? (Keeping in mind that my progress comes first right now.)


M / W: 43
D8
S6
M 10 years / T 13 years
W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09
Separated in same house 10.6.09
W moved out 2.27.10