What is the best way to confront AGAIN about an E or P affair. She has always sworn, "cheating on your spouse would be like cheating on your kids". I have asked her many times. She swears I have nothing to worry about. "I need to work on myself, I cannot handle any relationship right now, including this one" has come out of her mouth on the 2 bombshell conversations. But I am sick with worry about an A. Have been for 6 months or so. Tried to put it out of my mind. It destroys me to think about. But I need to know, how do I get her to confess? What if she is telling the truth? Thank you to all for the help. All contact is a Godsend.
What good will "knowing" do for you Shaves?
Will confirming that she is NOT having an affair change the reality that your W still wants S right now?
Will confirming that she IS having an affair change the reality that your W still wants S right now?
Focus on what you need to do. Detach my friend. That has to be your answer right now. You need to get yourself together so that you can climb the mountain that is in front of you right now.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
