Originally Posted By: MrBond
Look up the "Stockdale Paradox".


"You must retain faith that you can prevail to greatness in the end, while retaining the discipline to confront the brutal facts of your current reality."

I don't think that I get your point Bond? You could be telling me to be optimistic about my W's body language... or you could be telling me that I need to better recognize the "brutal facts of [my] current reality."

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce