He said it normal for me to be mad. This is not helping me at all!
It is normal to bounce though a whole array of emotions through this process... Denial, grief, fear, anger,loneliness... you will bounce back and forth through these for some time... You may feel like you have moved on passed these and all of a sudden they come right back... I recommend ordering Rebuilding when your relationship ends..... Once you get past these emotions you will come to acceptance and freedom.... When you reach this point... You will become exponentially more attractive... You will " KNOW" that the outcome of your sitch isn't the most important thing anymore... You are happy by yourself and with yourself... You did everything you could do with what you knew... You are "FREE" to move on.
This C is counting our marriage out! I am sure my wife is too.
Doesn't matter... Her friends, family, counselor and everybody else that she knows could tell her she should end her marriage... If everybody told you to quit trying to save it would you? Nope, Not until YOU DECIDE that's what you want to do.
I dont know what to do. I think if I went out and grabbed the next girl I could find W would say "good for you!"
Doubt it, she would be jealous.. Your not ready for anyone else quite yet though.
W is working again tonite, and we will be home together for the first time since last Tuesday nite.
Time to GAL? Maybe the new interesting, exciting, mysterious shaves needs to get out of the house and start a new hobby?
I will try to be strong, but i need some guidance on how to act, things I may say.
Be Cool, Calm, In control of your emotions, Strong, Decisive and aware of your words and actions....
