What is the best way to confront AGAIN about an E or P affair. She has always sworn, "cheating on your spouse would be like cheating on your kids". I have asked her many times. She swears I have nothing to worry about. "I need to work on myself, I cannot handle any relationship right now, including this one" has come out of her mouth on the 2 bombshell conversations. But I am sick with worry about an A. Have been for 6 months or so. Tried to put it out of my mind. It destroys me to think about. But I need to know, how do I get her to confess? What if she is telling the truth? Thank you to all for the help. All contact is a Godsend.