Your W's C isn't going to change what is in your W's heart, good or bad. His/her words may validate what she believes her current feelings are, but that is all he/she is doing. Ultimately, only your W will decide what she wants for her life. If you DB successfully your W may realize what she is giving up and decide on M with you. Or she won't. But nothing this C says, nothing her friends or family say, and nothing that YOU say, is going decide the outcome.

You need to focus on DBing. That is all you can do. All that you can control. As dbmod said... FOCUS. This takes TIME and PATIENCE shaves.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce