FOCUS!!! Don't worry about what the counselor says. He's not an asset, but your dbing IS. And time. It is on your side. You need to get it together so that if/when she leaves, she will miss home, you want to plant the seed of doubt in her mind.
You can do this. Right now...just be your very best improved to this point. DO NOT talk about your relationship. Whatever she says, listen to her, but do not react. Just listen.
