Step - I think that you handled last night very well! I don't necessarily agree with you that it was a mistake in telling her that she's the one leaving and breaking up the family and not you. It IS TRUE! And you weren't the one that brought up the R talk. Nice job.
Tell her that I said 'good luck' to her calling the cops and having you removed from your home. Ain't going to happen unless there's some kind of abuse going on that you haven't mentioned. Oh, and as long as you have a property interest in the home just as she does.
You can protect your interests and live your life and still not give up on your M Step. Be careful to understand the distinction bw detaching and "letting go". The question that you have to answer is whether or not you want your M. Is it worth it? Is your W and F worth it? What did your vows ean to YOU? If you decide to keep working, then you are going to have understand that this takes TIME and PATIENCE!
BITS Denver
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
