Originally Posted By: crushednstuck
"It's better for people to think you're an a**, than open your mouth and prove it." Stolen from Abe Lincoln I think.


I knew Grit has had actual conversations with Abe, with his age and all...


but Et Tu CNS ?



Originally Posted By: crushednstuck

Early in that convo I told her I didn't want to talk about it because I didn't like her tone. "You never want to talk about it!" I almost got away, when she started pressing the universal remote buttons. I'll need to use the ten-count.


Taking the batteries out of that thing can be as easy as setting some healthy boundaries for yourself...

They are touchy , and usually include some Exorcist moments of their head spinning around on their body a couple times....

Know what you need to say for yourself first , and make sure it is for you. but I am thinking you need to protect yourself from her irrationality right now...

And you certainly do not need to be sucked into a relationship conversation every freakin night....