You are getting some positives. sandi2 and Bworl are giving you some really good advice here: don't pursue, focus, and don't be 'eager' to jump back in with both feet. Go slow. Don't be completely available. It's a 'dance' now.
Boundaries are set better with actions than words. So don't talk about them now, you've already spoken your limits. Now, don't fully engage until she shows you what you asked for. Setting boundaries is the 'after the last resort technique', but you've already employed it, so do it well.
