You are not talking to yourself Simple. I'm having problems getting my posts up too. I'm really not sure what is going on. Anyway...

Bond and Grocery are absolutely right. You didn't set a boundary, she did. Go back to your bedroom. Your W is the one that wants the S, let her find a new place to sleep and dress.

My 2 cents.

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce