Seeking,

I am SO sorry that you were served. You are very wise to separate your H's current actions from all of the love and memories you both shared.

Originally Posted By: seeking answers
I figure if it happens, a truth dart at this point won't hurt. I will just leave him with this thought. If what you have offered is fair then you have nothing to worry about.

This ^^^^^^ sounds like a good response. That is one of those sideways comments that at first blush sounds like it infers that your H is being fair, but actually goes straight to the point.

(((((((Seeking)))))))))

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