I have done everything wrong....

[Grocerykartman]

I would say yes, with one exception...don't go out of your way to be offering her items you can do without. That comes across as not standing up for your living quarters, which she wouldn't respect if she was meeting you for the first time. Plus, you never know what you might actually need later, so don't give if away the store iy by chance you are doing so....and it sounds like she's wiping you fairly clean here as it is.

I know its awful man. Best thing I can tell you to do is when you do go to the bookstore or go shopping, don't look at it like she's not there and you can't barely function without her. Shop however you'd like to shop...if you want to go look at the meat or the frozen foods first, then do that and live a little. Take the backroads to the store. Read some things you haven't been abe to find time to read before. This is kind of like mini-GALing. You gotta find ways to be happier doing routine things first, then you can transition into other things.