At this point trust me when I say that I have pretty much admitted to myself that the end is near. This is something my mom feels like she wants to do for her own sanity. So here is my question to you guys. Is this a good idea? Should she?
2Step - The end is near only if you decide it is!! There are 2 types of D. 1) Legal D and 2) Emotional D. They are NOT one and the same. So IF your W goes through with legal D, do you have to give up? That is up to you.
The answer to your question is a resounding NO. Keep your family out of this. I don't see how a convo bw your W and M will be a step in the right direction for YOU. MHO.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce