Guys, you both have valid points. Tjack, yours is alot harder to execute. W saw our C today, 3rd time by herself. havent heard from her, dont know if i should ask about it. She will call tonite from her work to check on children. I am readin DR right now. This is going to be a hard road. Got weak this morning and gave hug. Must stop this. Someone posted give unconditional love, but i cant be strong and do this at the same time. One thing i have done is told her that I am going to finish a bathroom and a bedroom in the basement for a roommate. Hoping she will get the hint I dont need her, or her income. This should also keep me even more busy in the meantime. She made some poor decisions regarding spending time with the kids last weekend. As tactfully as I could I made my opinion clear. I think this was a mistake. She began crying and worrying that I am going to try to get full custody, and so on. Obviously she is still planning on the move out. What do I do when she is putting her personal satifaction in front of the kids' needs time and time again? This is very uncharacteristic of her. She has changed in the head. I miss my wife. I am trying to make the best decisions here but still alot of gray.
