Need advice please!!! Not sure on next move?

[dixiegal]

So, just got off the phone with the C. Not from DBing. But, the author of save my marraige.

Anyways, he said a lot of things to that made sense. He explained the why to a Man having a affair. What is #1 to a Man and what matters to us gals.

He even said, Your past is not your future. Once you believe that you can move forward.

What we didnt get to is...what do I do now? I understand what I did wrong/what he did wrong. How we were on the road and kept having head on collisons w/each other.

But, once the Man has made his mind up to go and does. Then what???

Geez, I hate when that happens...you feel like things are making sense. Then, TIMES UP!

One thing I wanted to share was this...he said, "A Woman can't trust a Man who is off centered". MEN this is true!!! When us gals have to take the reins. We hate it!!! But, we will do it. But, its hard for us to respect/trust our Man again. Then, the resentment starts.

Don't know if that helps anyone...but, thought I'd pass it on.

Well, H should be making contact in the next day or so to pick up Dog. Yall pray for me!