A slow turn

[Bolt]

W is still in Tenn but seems very tired and wants to come home. R talk came up and I told her that if she truly wanted the R to work, she had to stop the texting. She agreed and said she had already slowed it way down. I said it had to stop and she agreed, really without a thought.

She has told me that she wants the R to work most of the time. I wasn't sure what that meant and she said that she didn't when the Old Bolt came back.

I did tell her that she has to pull one brick out of that wall so I can slowly come back in. It is a slow process and I want her to see that we have both changed for the better of the R. She seemed open but without seeing her face, I can't tell.

I've been detaching and it does make her call me and talk to me. I have to keep it going and not expect anything.