It was becoming a regular viewing of the weird stuff. At first I was thinking it was just an oops. But it has pretty much the same weird stuff especially the she males. I was beginning to wonder if he was questioning his sexuality. I really don't know. Just thought someone might have a view on it. But thanks for the thoughts on it. I wish it was that easy!
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
I still wouldn't read a lot into that. There are things I've been mildly fascinated with that I'd never actually want to meet up with anybody to do. It's just that it's so easy to find on the web. But if the history shows hours and hours spent on it every day or week, then it might be something more.
In any case, it still doesn't necessarily mean he's not also interested in "normal" sex.
Wanda, I am sorry for what you are going through. It is obvious that you love your husband and care about your marriage. Although I have not had to deal with the porn aspect or my H leaving, I do have a situation where my partner believes that the problem is all mine, refuses counseling, and engages in sex that is disconnected and unappealing to me. I do not have advice to offer, but I have plenty of compassion for you and your situation.
