They are such idiots at this stage. The only thing your H cares about right now is himself. Others are irrelevant. I remember when my ex started introducing his secretary to my kids as his girlfriend when we were still married. It is important to them to validate and normalize what they are doing.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11