Probably not, because your W will likely assume that you have somehow sent your mother. This will be especially true if your M tells her some of the same things she told you.
It'll likely be like your M pursuing on your behalf...but what do I know, I'm waist deep in the [censored] as well.
Hopefully Sandi or Truegritter will have some strong words.
BITS SIC
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011