2stepboogie, you are reactive still. That's usually the killer in DB and how most of make mistakes (believe me, I know. Been there, done that!). Maybe make a 30 minute rule before you respond or call so you can think about first? 30 minutes waiting won't hurt her and it may help your sitch. It will at least let you post here first. smile

What is BITS? A brotherhood of DB men here?


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11