I want to purpose something to you, and you think about it, okay? If June is the deadline, why not approach your W and say something along these lines:
"I realize that I'm not going to change your mind about getting D. Since we don't have much time left together, what do you think about us stopping the C sessions, and just relax and stop being each other's worst nightmare. We have just a little over 4 months left, so why don't we make the most of the time we have left? No strings attached, no pressures, no tricks, no games, no expectations, and no sex.......just friends. Let's go out with a bag of a good time!"
Scared, I believe this could be your biggest opportunity, but she will want to know if you will stop fighting her about the D, and you will have to agree to let her go in June....or what I've purposed is worthless.
Look at it this way, you've already lost her. The M is dead. Everything you try, she thinks it is a trick, so she isn't trusting you. She has her guard up. But if she thought you would stop with the games and give her a D in June, then she would let her guard down. You could use that time to be the man you were when she fell in love with you. She has to open her heart just a little bit.
When the pressure is let off both of you, then you will be able to be more playful and not be so serious and down all the time. Maybe it sounds crazy....but really and truly....it is the LRT.
What is LRT?
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
