Relationship Discussions - When is ok?

[Scared2Def]

Hey all,

Wife has bascially decided to leave in June, after school lets out for summer vacation. We have been trying since last May to work things out.

Problem is that I never really saw the facts of her eaving until she finally told me on 2 January this year. We have continued with Marriage Couseling but she is admiment about June. I have made all the real changes and see what I need to do. I have not talked about our relationshio since last Monday in Marriage Counseling.

1) When is it ok to discuss?
2) Do I wait for her to briing it up?
3)I can wait for her to bring it up, but when she does, if it is about her leaving what do I respond with?
4) Do I ever say "I am/have changed don't you see the changes? Why can you not give me a real chance?"

Please advise me!