My Story - He Cheated while I was Pregnant

[wanda15]

Well you are in a real pickle with this one. I read your thread and I am pretty sure your H has been talking to my H cuz they sound the same!!! LOL!!

One thing I noticed is that you need some boundries with H. I remember that feeling I got when H would be gone for awhile and then he would come back to the house and act like it was his right to be there. Sorry buddy, you left. Your house is your space and he needs to respect that. Good for you on not letting him on the bed. They don't get to have there fun one day and show up and make us uncomfortable the next.

I used to do the same thing. This time around I set major boundries. Right now I don't even let him in the house. And he has to text me before coming over. I have told him no. H doesn't like it much, but I need to breathe and not worry about when he will show up. Some of my boundries may seem to harsh but it is what I need to do right now.

I think you need to figure out what is best for you and set those boundries with him.

As for the call you got from him, be careful. Do not get your hopes up. WAS can backslide too. Listen and verify but do not bite. Remember your DBing.

Hope your night goes well.