Thanks grr...I am only strong sometimes. That is why I do not want the face to face with H yet. Working on me first so I don't become a raging lunatic when I do see him.
A few weeks before H left we had discussed S11 getting a cell phone. My MIL had a pay and talk that she didn't use anymore and said she would give it to me. So when IL's were here on Sunday they brought the phone by. Today I hooked it up and gave it to S. So he texted daddy to let him know. Next thing I know i am getting a text from H saying "you could have given me a heads up about the phone, why are you not communicating with me"
First off, he KNEW!!! Secondly, why did I have to give him the heads up? He is not paying for it. I am the one who has the kids 90% of the time with no vehicle...and thirdly, isn't that somethimg a H and W would talk about together???? He wanted out. He left. He does not get to make those choices anymore.
But even with all that he still didn't ruin my day. I got called for a job interview today and it sounded like they already had made there minds up that I am the one getting the job. Sweet day for me. And I am not telling H.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007